Become the happiest person you know.
Embrace muddy times in your life
Sometimes life hits with curve balls and it seems like it´s mocking everything you worked for. At times life feels unfair, like it would be working against you instead of for you. Mind says that you did nothing to deserve this. It´s easy to think why is this happening to me and feel sorry for oneself.
It´s one of the most unproductive states to be in. When you think life is working against you, your focus is on the negative aspects. Even though sometimes it´s good to embrace negative feelings as well, the way out of misery lies in getting a new perspective. Unless you enjoy muddy bath and decide to stay there longer.
When you notice yourself sinking into victimhood and feeling that life works against you, ask yourself set of questions to shift your thinking into something more productive.
How could this be serving me in the long run? Steve Jobs took a caligraphy class after dropping out from his major. That class was a base...
If you had to choose either happiness or safety, which one would it be? Most choose safety. That´s why there are so many people who don´t feel empowered and whose life doesn´t feel good. Safety is tricky trap of the mind and mind tells to look for it outside of yourself. From things like money, relationship or being accepted. But real safety can never be found outside, it´s inner knowing.
Chasing safety in life comes from the perspective of limited mind and is based on fear. Someone tries to have certain amount of money to feel safe. Only to find out that there is not enough money in the world to bring that feeling. Another one chooses to stay in unhappy relationship because they are afraid to be alone. Happiness can´t be found while living from fear and making choices based on it. It´s just not possible. They come from different sources, happiness comes from heart and fear from mind.
It took me years to take a leap of faith and choose happiness...
At times life just sucks you in it´s web. Hello negative thoughts, downward spiral in energy and all kinds of crab happening simultaneously. I don´t know if it´s Universe´s cruel joke but it seems there is always a bundle of shit when it starts to hit the fan. If it was just one thing, then it could be more easily managed. But no, it´s shitload and everything seems to come down at once. What a beautiful experience.
When it happens and life is showing it´s ugly face, what can you do to get yourself out of that downward spiral? Here are my top 3 tips how to get yourself out and feeling better again.
Thoughts are energy. More you think about negative stuff, more you feel like shit. Thoughts are energy and they are affecting your energy field all the time. But instead of forcing yourself to try thinking positive stuff (which is not going to work, if you don´t believe those thoughts), try surrendering to your thoughts. Let´s say I would...
Everyone wants to feel that they are in charge of their lives but very few feel that it´s true. We get so caught up in living from outside impulses that we forget how to live from the powercenter we already have in us.
How many things in your life you think that you NEED to get done and do? I would stop right there with the word need. Basically when you are telling yourself that you need to do this and that, what you are really saying is "I hate to do this, but I´m forcing myself anyway." No wonder life feels pretty shitty from doing things day in and out from thought energy like that.
So how to shift gears and start to feel that you actually CHOOSE what you want to do and put your energy into? With self-empowerment. What I mean by empowerment is that you start realizing that nobody other than yourself is making you to do anything. You actually are the chooser of everything you decide to do. It´s just easy and unresponsible to outsource that to someone else like a...
There's a belief that we should hold on to people, that we have once chosen into our lives. It can be friendship, marriage or any other bond. One day or over the years we realize, that this relationship doesn't feel good anymore. Maybe it hasn't for a long time but out of a habit, we still keep the person around.
In my own journey I have let loads of people go. At first it was heartbreaking but then when I realized what really is going on, I started to feel good about it. I will explain how I understand this.
We are eternal souls having human experience. We are made of energy, which is so densified it seems like it's solid. With that energy we send out vibration just like radio tower. We vibrate on the frequency of our thoughts, feelings and inner being called soul. Everything that is going on in us, affects the frequency we are on. In Universe same kind of frequencies attract each other, which is know as law of attraction.
We live our daily life and one day someone comes into...
Are you surrounded daily by negative people? Do you feel like your good vibe is getting killed with some people? I know, it sucks! But you know, it doesn´t have to bother you from now on. I'm about to share with you few tricks and realizations that have helped me to keep my frequency high despite of the people around me.
Some people are just in endless loop of negativity and there´s really not much anyone from outside can do for that. So step number one is to realize and recognize that those people get their energy from negativity. And you need to accept that you can't change that in them.
What you can change is your behaviour around negative people and how you decide to react on it. I used to try to fix negativity from others by pointing out positive things instead. I thought that if I could just make the other person see the matter from my perspective, they would change their mind. Well it didn't work. I just got frustrated and pissed. So my advice is, don't try to...
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